Do You Want Happy Relationships? Love Yourself.

Here’s my big message today: You can only have happy relationships if you have happy self-love.

Nope, I’m not talking about narcissism—or extreme selfishness. Here’s why: I believe selfish people don’t really love themselves.

Let me tell you my story.

Two years ago, I attended my 25^th Alumni Homecoming.

It was great catching up with old friends. We were all bigger, balder, and bumpier in various parts of our body.

But what gave the heebeejeevies was walking through my old school building. I was overwhelmed with a flood of not-so-happy memories. I realized how much I didn’t like school.

You see, I was a very insecure kid.

I was very shy. I was introverted. I had pimples. I was so thin, they called me tipaklong (grasshopper). For Filipinos, my nose was large, so they called it a grand piano hanging on my face.

And some classmates bullied me. They called me names. They pushed me around. They forced me to do errands. And they made me their lifetime supply of pad paper.

In youth lingo, I was a Loser with a capital L.

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FIGHT THE RELATIONSHIP DRIFT

Warning: There’s a cruel epidemic afflicting our families, our marriages, and our friendships. It’s called the Relationship Drift.

It’s a very devious disease. It’s like some cancers. You really don’t know you have it until it’s fatal. And then it’s too late.

And then Relationship Drift becomes Relationship Dead.

THE CHANGE SHALL COME FROM WITHIN

We all have tried to fix our loved ones, admit it. There's always something wrong with someone. But the more we change things the more it'll stay the same...and yes thats true. learn more about this in Bo Sanchez article. and when you're on it subscribe for newsletter.

Stop Trying To Fix People

You know what our monstrous mistake is?

We try to fix the people in our life.

Oh, I see it everywhere.

Everywhere I go, I see people complain about the people in their life.

Wives complain about their husbands.

“Bo, please talk to my husband. He eats too much.”

“Bo, can you help me? My husband watches too much TV.”

One frustrated wife told me, “Bo, please advice my husband. He doesn’t have a one romantic bone in his body. Last year, he gave me a bar of soap for Valentines Day. The brand? Mr. Clean.”

But husbands complain about their wives too.

“Bo, please talk to my wife. She’s gastadora.”

“Bo, help me with my wife. My wife is always hysterical and historical. She remembers all my past mistakes, including date, time, and place.”

One husband told me, “My wife is so talkative. If the universe paid 1 centavo for every word she said, I’ll be the richest man in the world today.”

Another man said, “My wife is always angry. When she’s angry, she causes global warming and the melting of the ice caps in the North Pole.”

Parents complain about their kids too.

“My kids are too messy.”

“My kids can’t focus on their studies.”

One mother said, “My kids are so lazy. If given a chance, they’ll ask someone to breathe for them.”

And everywhere I go, I also hear many kids ask me to fix their parents.

“My parents are too strict.”

“My parents are too corny.”

“My parents are too kuripot.”

One girl told me, “They allow me to swim only if I wear a long gown.”

All over the world, people want to fix people.

Let me tell you why…

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KNOW THE SECRET TO HOW TO GET RICH BE A MILLIONAIRE IN NO TIME

THE SECRET TO YOU

THE SECRET

You’re everything I thought you never were
And nothing like I thought you could’ve been
But still you live inside of me
So tell me how is that?

You’re the only one I wish I could forget
The only one I’d love to not forgive
And though you break my heart, you’re the only one
And though there are times when I hate you
Cause I can’t erase
The times that you hurt me
And put tears on my face
And even now while I hate you
It pains me to say
I know I’ll be there at the end of the day

I don’t wanna be without you babe
I don’t want a broken heart
Don’t wanna take a breath with out you babe
I don’t wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I don’t want to love you in no kind of way no no
I don’t want a broken heart
And I don’t wanna play the broken-hearted girl...No...No
No broken-hearted girl
I’m no broken-hearted girl

Something that I feel I need to say
But up to now I’ve always been afraid
That you would never come around
And still I want to put this out
You say you’ve got the most respect for me
But sometimes I feel you’re not deserving me
And still you’re in my heart
But you’re the only one and yes
There are times when I hate you
But I don’t complain
Cause I’ve been afraid that you would've walk away
Oh but now I don’t hate you
I’m happy to say
That I will be there at the end of the day

I don’t wanna be without you babe
I don’t want a broken heart
Don’t wanna take a breath with out you babe
I don’t wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I don’t want to love you in no kind of way no no
I don’t want a broken heart
And I don’t wanna play the broken-hearted girl...No…No
No broken-hearted girl

Now I’m at a place I thought I’d never be…Oooo
I’m living in a world that’s all about you and me…yeah
Ain't gotta be afraid my broken heart is free
To spread my wings and fly away
Away With you
yeah yeah yeah, ohh ohh ohh

I don’t wanna be without my baby
I don’t wanna a broken heart
Don’t want to take a breath with out my baby
I don’t wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I don’t want to love you in no kind of way..No..No
I don’t want a broken heart
I don’t wanna play the broken-hearted girl..No..No..
No broken-hearted girl
Broken-hearted girl No…no…
No broken-hearted girl
No broken-hearted girl

Love is passion. Obsession. Someone you can't live without. Someone you fall head over heels for. Find someone you can love like crazy, and will love you the same way back. Listen to your heart. No sense in life without this. To make the journey without falling deeply in love, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try, because if you haven't tried, then you haven't lived.

DANCING THE PAIN AWAY

“At the end of the day faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don't really expect it. It's like one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. And it's not so important happy ever after, just that its happy right now. See once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you , and once in a while people may even take your breath away.”

-my sweet escape

Your Love Number is 2

Of all the numbers, you are the most caring and empathetic lover. Unselfish and humble, you find it easy to forgive your sweetie's mistakes. At times, your need to please can be come a bit too needy. As long as you remain somewhat independent, your relationships are perfectly balanced.

What Is Your Love Number?

Blogthings: Learn Something Surprising About Yourself

Bm A D Bm A D
Ngayo'y aking inuunawang pilit,Mga pagkukulang kong iyong iginigiit

Bm A D A Bm A
Sana'y malaman mo na tanging ikaw lamang, Ang aking iniintidi

(DO Stanza Chords)
Nakatanim pa sa king alaala, Pangako mong mananatili ka,
Kaya't paglisan mo'y iniwan, Ang puso na ngayo'y bitin na bitin

Chorus:

G A Bm D G
Di mo na mababawi, Iniwang sakit sa mga salitang binitiwan mo

A Bm D
Hindi ba't ikaw na rin ang nagpasiya,Nagtakda at siyang unang umiwas

G A Bm
Bakit nga ba ako'y iyong pinaasa

(Do stanza chords)
Nasa aking guni-guni ang malaming mong tinig
Ksabay ng hangin na dumarampi, Na para bang nariyan sa aking paligid
Tahimik na nagmamasid

(repeat Chorus)

Bridge:

A G Bm A
Nahulog na'ng mga ulap, Buwan at araw, mga bituin

G Bm
Ang ginugol na panaho'y nasaan? (panaho'y nasaan)

G Bm A
Di ba't sayang naman (sayang naman) giliw,yeah, yeah yeah

Intro:
C-D(/C)-G(/B)-G7-;
C7--G7--;(2x)
C7-D7-

G C(/G) G
Walang tigil ang gulo

F#m7 B7 Em (Dm7,)
sa aking pagiisip,

(G7) C Am, D
Mula ng tayo'y nagpasyang mag

G-G7-
hiwalay

C D
Nagpaalam pagka't hindi tayo

Bm7
bagay,

E7(sus) E7 Am D7(sus) D7-
Nakapagtataka, (hoh hoh,)


G C(/G) G
Kung bakit ganito

F#m7 B7 Em (Dm7,)
Ang Aking Kapalaran

(G7) C Am, D
'Di ba't ilang ulit ka nang nag

G-G7-
paalam

C D
At bawat paalam ay puno ng

Bm7
iyakan?

E7(sus) E7 Am D7(sus) D7-
Nakapagtataka, Nakapagtataka


Chorus:

Bb Dm7
Hindi ka ba napapagod,

Gm7
O' di kaya'y nagsasawa,

Cm7
Sa ating mga tampuhang

F7(sus)-F7-
Walang hanggang katapusan?


Bb Dm7
Napahid na'ng mga luha,

Gm7
Damdamin at puso'y tigang,

Cm7
Wala ng maibubuga,

F7(sus)-F7-
Wala na kong maramdaman. (hoh!)


Verse 3:


G C(/G) G
Walang tigil ang ulan

F#m7 B7 Em (Dm7,)
At na-----san ka araw?

(G7) C Am, D
Napa'no na'ng pag-ibig sa

G-G7-
isa't isa?

C D Bm7
Wala na bang nanatiling pag-asa?

E7(sus) E7 Am D7(sus) D7-
Nakapagtataka, san na napunta?


(Repeat Chorus)

(Adlib)

Chorus:

Bb Dm7
Napahid na'ng mga luha,

Gm7
Damdamin at puso'y tigang,

Cm7
Wala ng maibubuga,

F7(sus)-F7-
Wala na kong maramdaman. (hoh!)


Bridge:

Eb Ebdim Bb(/D) Bb7
Kung tunay tayong nagmamahalan

Eb Ebdim Bb(/D) Bb7
Ba't di tayo magkasunduan?

Eb F7(sus)-D7
(Oh hoh-hoh)

MY BITTER SWEET LOVE-

is it unfair?
why do we ever have to let it go..
time will come for us to know
if we are meant for each other...
time will tell us where our hearts must go...
all the lies will slowly fade away in time
and we will learn from our mistakes
then there will never ever come a time
were we must part again..
I believe our love is greater than our pain
whats there to hide..
all the secrets now revealed..
hope is there to give us faith
time will show us that pain is an option and happiness is a choice
what do we really mean to each other
are the questions we ask ourselves
we go faster than what we ought to do
we don't know where we should be
we end it here then tomorrow is another chance
we are confuse
but we both can see the ones who's hurting is us..
every memory is tearing us apart..
every morning is leaving us tears
time apart has become a poison...


moya-