The Only Thing That Can Heal Your Emotional Wounds?

Have you been hurt before?

Have you ever been rejected by others? Ridiculed? Maligned? Gossiped about?

Have you been cheated? Betrayed? Lied to? Stolen from?

If your answer is yes, then I’m writing to the right person.

That means you have emotional wounds, and my big message for you is that there’s only one thing that can heal your wounds.

Let me start by talking about something of great cosmological and eternal significance: My bloody ingrown toenail.

Sometimes called hangnail.

Let me translate that in Pilipino: hangnail is kukong nagbigti.

Anyway, would you believe my ingrown toenail lasted for two years? Because the nail kept re-growing, puncturing my wound again and again. The wound got infected and my entire toe was filled with foul-smelling yellow pus. (I apologize for grossing you out. I’m actually doing it on purpose and having fun.)

This is my claim to sainthood. If St. Francis of Assisi had his stigmata, I had my two-year old bloody ingrown toenail.

After two years, my mother scared me to death and said if the wound doesn’t get well, they might have to cut off my toe.

I loved my toe.

So I visited a doctor. And he said he had to pull out half of my toenail. I fainted.

I still remember that fateful day. The anesthesia didn’t work because of the pus. So I felt like San Lorenzo Ruiz who was tortured in the same way. (Please mention this tiny detail in my sainthood application.)

Here’s how the Doc did it.

Step 1: He pushed his scissors in between my nail and my toe, all the way to the very end. The pain was so horrific, I was ready to recant anything he told me to recant. Even my love for peanut butter.

Step 2: He cut my entire toenail into two. “Snap!”

Step 3: He got his metal pliers and yanked out half of my toenail. Blood and pus spurt like a little fountain.

But it worked.

My wound was now free to heal itself. What lasted for two years took only a few days to heal.

Why am I telling you this gory story?

To tell you that your emotional wounds are just like physical wounds. Bitterness is like the ingrown—it keeps the original wound alive by puncturing it again and again. So your emotional wound doesn’t heal.

And your soul gets infected.

If you’re not careful, the emotional wound can grow until it amputates parts of you, slowly killing you.

I’ve met people like these.

I pity them so much. They’re like the living dead. They are alive but they’re dead.

Like Minette, for instance.

Pressing The Rewind Button Again

Minette’s husband left her three years ago.

But when you talk to her, it was like it happened yesterday.

Adultery is one of the deepest wounds a human heart can have. After entrusting your entire life to one person, that one person betrays that trust.

But I believe even the emotional wound of adultery can be healed. I’ve met many wives whose husbands became unfaithful—and they were able to move on by the power of forgiveness.

But Minette couldn’t forgive.

Because everyday, she pressed the “Rewind” button of the most hurtful scenes.

Today, Minette has cancer. It doesn’t take a psychologist to connect the dots. Her bitterness was eating up her body as well.

But it doesn’t have to be this way.

I should know.

I Forgive For Selfish Reasons

I was sexually molested twice, not by strangers on the street, but by an older cousin and by my own youth group leader. William Blake said, “It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.” That’s so true.

Those traumatic events warped my thinking, opened my life to addictions, and gave me self-contempt that would affect my entire life. I hated myself. I was ashamed of myself. Oh yes, my wounds were deep.

Yet in my heart, I’ve forgiven them. Totally.

I’ve released the bitterness in my soul.

Why?

Because of a very selfish reason.

Remember: Forgiveness is first of all a gift you give yourself.

I forgave because I wanted peace.

I wanted to move on with my life.

I wanted to get rid of the emotional baggage.

I wanted to be free.

And today, I am!

Let me share with you one more personal experience…

When You Forgive,

You Bless Your Future

Many years ago, I started a tiny business with a friend. I was the investor and he was the guy who ran the show.

One day, I saw him with a new cell phone. A really cool, top-of-the-line thing that had everything you could think of—camera, video-cam, GPRS, missile guidance system, and an umbrella.

“Wow, that’s a great cell phone,” I said.

“This is a gift. Someone gave it to me,” he said.

The next time we meet, he brought a new laptop.

“That’s really nice,” I said.

“Oh, this is also a gift…,” he said.

A few months later, the business collapsed.

After looking at the records, I realized I was the one who gave them to him!

He was stealing from the business.

A year later, he came to me and asked for forgiveness. I forgave him even before he asked for forgiveness.

Here’s the reason why I forgave him.

Again, I did it for selfish reasons. I didn’t want to waste any of my time and energy trying to get the money back. Instead, I wanted to use all my time and energy to earn ten times what I lost. I used my frustration to create more wealth. I wanted to focus on the future, not the past. I wanted to focus on my dreams, not my wounds.

Imagine if you lost one peso. And you have two options: Spend one hour looking for that one peso or spend that same hour earning P100 somewhere else?

A bitter person will choose the first option. Crazy but true.

Today, let me report to you: I’ve earned many, many times what I lost from that tiny business. This is the power of forgiveness. It heals your wound and blesses your future. That’s why I believe forgiveness is one of God’s greatest inventions!

Let me tell you how to forgive…

Stage One: Get Angry

Forgiveness is not a one-stage process.

It’s a two-stage process.

Here they are…

Stage One: Get angry.

Stage Two: Release the anger.

That’s it.

Don’t be shocked, but anger is the first stage of forgiveness.

You have to admit the hurt.

You have to acknowledge the pain.

You have to say, “What he did to me was wrong.”

Some people think forgiveness is pretending nothing bad happened. That’s not true. If you’re angry, feel the anger.

But you must express your anger in a non-hurtful way, without screaming or attacking. Bring your anger before God. Share your pain to a few trusted friends. Ask for prayer. Go ahead, cry. Offer your tears to God.

Anger heals because it’s about loving yourself—and love always heals. Anger means you’re standing up for you. As an abuse victim, I had to do this. Anger is needed to rebuild my broken personal boundaries.

How long should you stay in Stage One?

Not too long.

Because anger has an expiry date.

How Long Have You Been Angry?

Here’s the truth: Bitterness and anger is one and the same thing. But Bitterness is anger past its expiry date.

Let me illustrate.

I love spaghetti.

Served hot, it’s wonderful.

But left on the kitchen counter for a whole day, it may still be good but be careful.

After two days, you may get an upset stomach.

After one week, there’ll be more germs than spaghetti. At that point, the plate of spaghetti has become poison

Just like anger.

If anger stays too long in your heart, your anger no longer heals but kills. When anger turns into bitterness, it’s poison.

The Bible says, “the sun must not go down in your anger.”

I believe it. Except perhaps for severe wounds (like abuse, adultery, betrayal, etc.), I feel Stage One should not last for more than a day. I’m talking about the regular hurts we encounter everyday. Before nightfall, move onto Stage two.

But deeper wounds may need weeks or even months of anger and grief. For deeper wounds, I believe there’s no clear divide between Stage One and Two. There’ll be an overlap. But your movement must be towards Stage Two.

Because that’s where the real magic happens.

Stage Two: Release Anger

In Stage Two, you decide to forgive. Key word: Decide.

It’s not about feeling, but about willing. The feelings of anger can linger (that’s normal) but the decision has already been made in your heart.

Remember, Love is a decision, not just a feeling. If forgiveness is love, then forgiveness is a decision too.

But here’s a very important footnote: Forgiveness isn’t necessarily bringing back the relationship to where it was before. If you caught your boyfriend cheating on you, what should you do? Forgive him! But that doesn’t mean you have to get back with him again. That’s all up to you.

Let’s say you caught your boyfriend cheating on you twice. What should you do? Again, you have to forgive him. Now, do you get back into his arms? If you’re a psychotic with sadomasochistic tendencies, go ahead. Your desires will be granted.

Forgiveness is also not opening up yourself to more hurt. For example, if your alcoholic husband beat you up, you still need to forgive him; But do you back into the house? No way. You run away and never see him until he gets counselling and stops drinking for 6 months.

Forgiveness Heals The “Enemy”

The cousin who molested me has long been dead. So forgiving him in my heart was enough.

The youth group leader who sexually abused me is still alive. After 30 years, I have yet to face him. You see, I reported his name to a Bishop, asking that he be barred from doing any religious work until he gets help for his perversion. I had to protect other young boys who may be working with him. He has yet to come to me to ask for forgiveness. But even if he does not, I’ve forgiven him—and sent that “spiritually” to him.

The guy who stole money? As I said, he asked for forgiveness, and I was able to say to him, “I forgive you.”

When you forgive someone, you also offer healing to that person. Whether he accepts it or not is not your concern.

And by some magic, you don’t only heal yourself and the other person. You also heal all your loved ones.

Forgiveness Heals Everyone In Your Life

Imagine a room of ten people.

And one person there stepped on poop. (Sorry, my article is really gross today—about ingrowns and poop. But bitterness is gross.) Slowly, everyone in the room smells the awful stench. Only one person has the poop, but everyone is affected by it.

Bitterness is like that.

It wounds everyone. Your family. Your friends.

Bitterness is an evil spirit and people feel it. They smell the poison. They sense it. They want to run away.

Sometimes, when I enter a home filled with conflicts, I feel the collective wound of the family. You cannot breathe.

But when a person forgives, he’s like opening a window in a smelly room because one person stepped on poop. Fresh air comes in. If bitterness wounds everyone, forgiveness heals everyone too.

My last story is a story that I created, adapted from other sources. Be blessed as you read it.

The Son Who Hated His Father

“Hi John,” the priest greeted his favorite nephew.

“Fr. Chris,” the young man said, his voice betraying his troubled soul.

The cleric felt so much pity for the teen. “I heard you’re having problems with your father.”

A frown formed on John’s face. “You know him. He’s your brother. You know he’s impossible to deal with. He’s so selfish. He’s so cruel…” He fought back his tears.

“Tell you what, son,” the priest tried to sound encouraging, “let’s pray for him.” He stood up and pinned the photo of the boy’s father on the wall.

“What’s that?” John asked. The sight of his father’s face stung him. He clenched his fists.

The priest said, “It’s just a way to help us pray for him. It’ll be our visual connection to your father.”

“But I don’t want to pray for him!” the young man shouted.

At that moment, the phone rang. “Excuse me, son,” Fr. Chris said, “let me answer this call and I’ll get back to you right away.” He left the room.

John found himself alone, staring at the photo of a man he despised with his entire being. Seething with rage, he saw a knife on the kitchen counter. On impulse, he grabbed it and ran back to the photo of his father. “I hate you!” he screamed, and stabbed the photo many, many times.

That was when Fr. Chris ran back. “Oh my God…,” The priest said, as he could only look in horror.

His energy spent, John thrust the knife into the photo one last time.

He took one step backward, panting.

“John, I had other photos there,” Fr. Chris said.

“What?” The young man looked at the priest.

Fr. Chris walked to the wall and removed the damaged photo.

John couldn’t believe his eyes.

Because underneath it was John’s photo. Also torn.

The priest explained. “After praying for your father, I wanted to pray for you, John.”

The young man looked at his damaged photo. His face was torn, punctured by the same stabbing he himself made.

Tears rolled down his cheeks.

But even as his vision blurred, John noticed that there was something else behind his torn photo.

He pulled it off the wall.

Underneath his photo was the picture of Jesus, His face, also torn, also wounded.

And John collapsed on his knees, and wept for a long time.

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This is the ultimate reason why we forgive: Because even if we sin against God, He still forgives us. We don’t deserve His love, but He loves us anyway.

Heal yourself, my friend.

Forgive anyone who has wronged you.

May your dreams come true,

Bo Sanchez

Do You Want Happy Relationships? Love Yourself.

Here’s my big message today: You can only have happy relationships if you have happy self-love.

Nope, I’m not talking about narcissism—or extreme selfishness. Here’s why: I believe selfish people don’t really love themselves.

Let me tell you my story.

Two years ago, I attended my 25^th Alumni Homecoming.

It was great catching up with old friends. We were all bigger, balder, and bumpier in various parts of our body.

But what gave the heebeejeevies was walking through my old school building. I was overwhelmed with a flood of not-so-happy memories. I realized how much I didn’t like school.

You see, I was a very insecure kid.

I was very shy. I was introverted. I had pimples. I was so thin, they called me tipaklong (grasshopper). For Filipinos, my nose was large, so they called it a grand piano hanging on my face.

And some classmates bullied me. They called me names. They pushed me around. They forced me to do errands. And they made me their lifetime supply of pad paper.

In youth lingo, I was a Loser with a capital L.

(To continue reading Bo's inspiring article, click here.)

FIGHT THE RELATIONSHIP DRIFT

Warning: There’s a cruel epidemic afflicting our families, our marriages, and our friendships. It’s called the Relationship Drift.

It’s a very devious disease. It’s like some cancers. You really don’t know you have it until it’s fatal. And then it’s too late.

And then Relationship Drift becomes Relationship Dead.

THE CHANGE SHALL COME FROM WITHIN

We all have tried to fix our loved ones, admit it. There's always something wrong with someone. But the more we change things the more it'll stay the same...and yes thats true. learn more about this in Bo Sanchez article. and when you're on it subscribe for newsletter.

Stop Trying To Fix People

You know what our monstrous mistake is?

We try to fix the people in our life.

Oh, I see it everywhere.

Everywhere I go, I see people complain about the people in their life.

Wives complain about their husbands.

“Bo, please talk to my husband. He eats too much.”

“Bo, can you help me? My husband watches too much TV.”

One frustrated wife told me, “Bo, please advice my husband. He doesn’t have a one romantic bone in his body. Last year, he gave me a bar of soap for Valentines Day. The brand? Mr. Clean.”

But husbands complain about their wives too.

“Bo, please talk to my wife. She’s gastadora.”

“Bo, help me with my wife. My wife is always hysterical and historical. She remembers all my past mistakes, including date, time, and place.”

One husband told me, “My wife is so talkative. If the universe paid 1 centavo for every word she said, I’ll be the richest man in the world today.”

Another man said, “My wife is always angry. When she’s angry, she causes global warming and the melting of the ice caps in the North Pole.”

Parents complain about their kids too.

“My kids are too messy.”

“My kids can’t focus on their studies.”

One mother said, “My kids are so lazy. If given a chance, they’ll ask someone to breathe for them.”

And everywhere I go, I also hear many kids ask me to fix their parents.

“My parents are too strict.”

“My parents are too corny.”

“My parents are too kuripot.”

One girl told me, “They allow me to swim only if I wear a long gown.”

All over the world, people want to fix people.

Let me tell you why…

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KNOW THE SECRET TO HOW TO GET RICH BE A MILLIONAIRE IN NO TIME

THE SECRET TO YOU

THE SECRET

You’re everything I thought you never were
And nothing like I thought you could’ve been
But still you live inside of me
So tell me how is that?

You’re the only one I wish I could forget
The only one I’d love to not forgive
And though you break my heart, you’re the only one
And though there are times when I hate you
Cause I can’t erase
The times that you hurt me
And put tears on my face
And even now while I hate you
It pains me to say
I know I’ll be there at the end of the day

I don’t wanna be without you babe
I don’t want a broken heart
Don’t wanna take a breath with out you babe
I don’t wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I don’t want to love you in no kind of way no no
I don’t want a broken heart
And I don’t wanna play the broken-hearted girl...No...No
No broken-hearted girl
I’m no broken-hearted girl

Something that I feel I need to say
But up to now I’ve always been afraid
That you would never come around
And still I want to put this out
You say you’ve got the most respect for me
But sometimes I feel you’re not deserving me
And still you’re in my heart
But you’re the only one and yes
There are times when I hate you
But I don’t complain
Cause I’ve been afraid that you would've walk away
Oh but now I don’t hate you
I’m happy to say
That I will be there at the end of the day

I don’t wanna be without you babe
I don’t want a broken heart
Don’t wanna take a breath with out you babe
I don’t wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I don’t want to love you in no kind of way no no
I don’t want a broken heart
And I don’t wanna play the broken-hearted girl...No…No
No broken-hearted girl

Now I’m at a place I thought I’d never be…Oooo
I’m living in a world that’s all about you and me…yeah
Ain't gotta be afraid my broken heart is free
To spread my wings and fly away
Away With you
yeah yeah yeah, ohh ohh ohh

I don’t wanna be without my baby
I don’t wanna a broken heart
Don’t want to take a breath with out my baby
I don’t wanna play that part
I know that I love you
But let me just say
I don’t want to love you in no kind of way..No..No
I don’t want a broken heart
I don’t wanna play the broken-hearted girl..No..No..
No broken-hearted girl
Broken-hearted girl No…no…
No broken-hearted girl
No broken-hearted girl

Love is passion. Obsession. Someone you can't live without. Someone you fall head over heels for. Find someone you can love like crazy, and will love you the same way back. Listen to your heart. No sense in life without this. To make the journey without falling deeply in love, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try, because if you haven't tried, then you haven't lived.

DANCING THE PAIN AWAY

“At the end of the day faith is a funny thing. It turns up when you don't really expect it. It's like one day you realize that the fairy tale may be slightly different than you dreamed. The castle, well, it may not be a castle. And it's not so important happy ever after, just that its happy right now. See once in a while, once in a blue moon, people will surprise you , and once in a while people may even take your breath away.”

-my sweet escape

Your Love Number is 2

Of all the numbers, you are the most caring and empathetic lover. Unselfish and humble, you find it easy to forgive your sweetie's mistakes. At times, your need to please can be come a bit too needy. As long as you remain somewhat independent, your relationships are perfectly balanced.

What Is Your Love Number?

Blogthings: Learn Something Surprising About Yourself

Bm A D Bm A D
Ngayo'y aking inuunawang pilit,Mga pagkukulang kong iyong iginigiit

Bm A D A Bm A
Sana'y malaman mo na tanging ikaw lamang, Ang aking iniintidi

(DO Stanza Chords)
Nakatanim pa sa king alaala, Pangako mong mananatili ka,
Kaya't paglisan mo'y iniwan, Ang puso na ngayo'y bitin na bitin

Chorus:

G A Bm D G
Di mo na mababawi, Iniwang sakit sa mga salitang binitiwan mo

A Bm D
Hindi ba't ikaw na rin ang nagpasiya,Nagtakda at siyang unang umiwas

G A Bm
Bakit nga ba ako'y iyong pinaasa

(Do stanza chords)
Nasa aking guni-guni ang malaming mong tinig
Ksabay ng hangin na dumarampi, Na para bang nariyan sa aking paligid
Tahimik na nagmamasid

(repeat Chorus)

Bridge:

A G Bm A
Nahulog na'ng mga ulap, Buwan at araw, mga bituin

G Bm
Ang ginugol na panaho'y nasaan? (panaho'y nasaan)

G Bm A
Di ba't sayang naman (sayang naman) giliw,yeah, yeah yeah

Intro:
C-D(/C)-G(/B)-G7-;
C7--G7--;(2x)
C7-D7-

G C(/G) G
Walang tigil ang gulo

F#m7 B7 Em (Dm7,)
sa aking pagiisip,

(G7) C Am, D
Mula ng tayo'y nagpasyang mag

G-G7-
hiwalay

C D
Nagpaalam pagka't hindi tayo

Bm7
bagay,

E7(sus) E7 Am D7(sus) D7-
Nakapagtataka, (hoh hoh,)


G C(/G) G
Kung bakit ganito

F#m7 B7 Em (Dm7,)
Ang Aking Kapalaran

(G7) C Am, D
'Di ba't ilang ulit ka nang nag

G-G7-
paalam

C D
At bawat paalam ay puno ng

Bm7
iyakan?

E7(sus) E7 Am D7(sus) D7-
Nakapagtataka, Nakapagtataka


Chorus:

Bb Dm7
Hindi ka ba napapagod,

Gm7
O' di kaya'y nagsasawa,

Cm7
Sa ating mga tampuhang

F7(sus)-F7-
Walang hanggang katapusan?


Bb Dm7
Napahid na'ng mga luha,

Gm7
Damdamin at puso'y tigang,

Cm7
Wala ng maibubuga,

F7(sus)-F7-
Wala na kong maramdaman. (hoh!)


Verse 3:


G C(/G) G
Walang tigil ang ulan

F#m7 B7 Em (Dm7,)
At na-----san ka araw?

(G7) C Am, D
Napa'no na'ng pag-ibig sa

G-G7-
isa't isa?

C D Bm7
Wala na bang nanatiling pag-asa?

E7(sus) E7 Am D7(sus) D7-
Nakapagtataka, san na napunta?


(Repeat Chorus)

(Adlib)

Chorus:

Bb Dm7
Napahid na'ng mga luha,

Gm7
Damdamin at puso'y tigang,

Cm7
Wala ng maibubuga,

F7(sus)-F7-
Wala na kong maramdaman. (hoh!)


Bridge:

Eb Ebdim Bb(/D) Bb7
Kung tunay tayong nagmamahalan

Eb Ebdim Bb(/D) Bb7
Ba't di tayo magkasunduan?

Eb F7(sus)-D7
(Oh hoh-hoh)

MY BITTER SWEET LOVE-

is it unfair?
why do we ever have to let it go..
time will come for us to know
if we are meant for each other...
time will tell us where our hearts must go...
all the lies will slowly fade away in time
and we will learn from our mistakes
then there will never ever come a time
were we must part again..
I believe our love is greater than our pain
whats there to hide..
all the secrets now revealed..
hope is there to give us faith
time will show us that pain is an option and happiness is a choice
what do we really mean to each other
are the questions we ask ourselves
we go faster than what we ought to do
we don't know where we should be
we end it here then tomorrow is another chance
we are confuse
but we both can see the ones who's hurting is us..
every memory is tearing us apart..
every morning is leaving us tears
time apart has become a poison...


moya-

twilight quotes

Don't we just love the books of Twilight series??? How much the movie??? There could be lot of interpretation to this but what I love the most is the love between Edward and Bella. Here are some quotes from them let your heart decide. hahaha ka korny ui

Before you, Bella, my life was like a moonless night. Very dark, but there were stars, points of light and reason. ….And then you shot across my sky like a meteor. Suddenly everything was on fire; there was brilliancy, there was beauty. When you were gone, when the meteor had fallen over the horizon, everything went black. Nothing had changed, but my eyes were blinded by the light. I couldn’t see the stars anymore. And there was no more reason for anything.

Our relationship couldn’t continue to balance, as it did, on the point of a knife. We would fall off one edge or the other, depending entirely upon his decision, or his instincts. My decision was made, made before I’d ever consciously chosen, and I was committed to seeing it through. Because there was nothing more terrifying to me, more excruciating, than the thought of turning away from him. It was an impossibility.

About three things I was absolutely positive. First, Edward was a vampire. Second, there was a part of him-and I didn’t know how potent that part might be-that thirsted for my blood. And third, I was unconditionally and irrevocably in love with him. –Bella Swan

+MY TWILIGHT+

My quote that everyone in facebook obviously loved and one of my friends Krista Kaule could relate toit so she copied it posted it on her facebook as shoutout.. hahahha...obviously everyone had a taste of bitterness in their lives that my quote caught their attention....

the truth hurts coz it opens the scars made of lies but you need to accept it so you can truly move on........

‘Ondoy’ leaves 106 dead and missing

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this weeks tarot card

You continue to evolve. A new attitude has brought new relationships and the heavens definitely support this change. The part of your nature that loves to learn is enthralled by your new revelations, so enjoy learning and growing; it's in your stars.

There could be a struggle between reality and illusion on Monday. This struggle temporarily confuses or baffles your senses as you ask a friendly universe a simple question. Is someone deceiving me, or am I deceiving myself? This is a card of illusion, disillusion, and sometime downright disappointment.

Wrapped in the guise of sensationalism, Tuesday could bring news that broadens the boundaries of your present world. Whether part of a job assignment or a personal issue that erupts suddenly in the form of world shaking news, it gives you the opportunity to take a trip away from familiar shores.

Be careful of a ruse that could put you in the position of the legendary Emperor who found himself without clothes due to inability to ask questions. A true leader asks about that which he doesn't understand. Wednesday finds you more vulnerable to flattery than you like to admit and possibly you avoid asking the right questions.

Just as the card depicts a lion as its symbol, you draw on all your own inner Strength and take on the fearlessness of the jungle cat. Thursday you could be tested and any attempt at dominating you is quelled. Someone is in for a shock as you call upon your inner resources.

There is nothing casual about the Death card appearing on Friday; it's a call to be lifted another step up the ladder of life's career accomplishments or intimate relationships. The day may end as a playful exchange of experiences or an ongoing guessing game between you and your partner, but there is no question you are at a new threshold.

Do you know a woman who seems to achieve anything she sets out to do? The High Priestess has that same deep and mysterious talent and it is enviable. On Saturday you could have an encounter with just such a person and you are encouraged to remember your own long-lost latent talents.

Life does get complicated on occasion and Sunday might be just one of those times. Feelings are deepening between two of you and yet another love tugs at your heartstrings and you want to hang on to the feeling. When The Lovers is drawn, old feelings can be ignited at any time and your lover knows that.

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For Cancer natives, today provides an opportunity to show the areas where you may be tightening or closing down around love. All of us struggle with personal issues, but you may be inadvertently blocking it from coming into your life. Looking into this a little more deeply will help you remove any

cancer on carrier

You seem to be very busy researching and writing this week. You may have deadlines for reports and articles, or you may be busy with administrative duties and paperwork. The pressure is on but thankfully not for much longer. Mercury continues to be retrograde, so this is an excellent time to get your office system sorted out and streamline it. Get rid of any backlog and clear your desk - you will feel so much more creative as a result.





My very own tarot card reading from Horoscope.com

Monday to Sunday reading: This is soooo true from, today is thursday and let's see what happens tomorrow and the rest of the week. I'm particularly excited on friday and saturday what does this mean a skeleton in my closet??? hahahha and I dont want to fall into the same web??? take note on saturday someone from the past? Hhmmpp...damn I just don´t know which one of them hahahha...kidding... And sunday mmmpp sooo true I miss home but I'm not sure where exactly that is. In my heart home is where my kids are. Thats my home sweet home. No matter where in the world we will be placed my heart knows home is where love exist. Charot... hahahhaha....true true and true diba?


The Fool is literally living on the edge and unmindful of impending danger. On Monday you too may be impatient to begin a new adventure and oblivious to what could be a threatening event, whether financial or emotional. Although your adventure is a new beginning, there could be an ending attached.






The Death card symbolizes endings and new beginnings at times with the speed of a lightening bolt. Tuesday new opportunities are on the horizon but it is hard to put away the remnants of the past. Many changes take place within the space of three to six hours and a new direction emerges.








The proverbial spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down on Wednesday. When the Temperance card appears there is the need for agreement and someone may have to swallow their pride in order to keep the peace. Temperance has a kind and loving nature and attempts to build a bridge over the waters of discord.









Thursday you could bump into a no-nonsense lady who makes you take some time and ponder. Is this Justice appearing as a guide and reminding you that being wishy-washy will not get you to your goal? There could be a struggle with an authority figure before this dilemma is resolved.









There could be a decision made on Friday. A sexy skeleton danced out of your closet and you enjoyed the reunion, but you don't want to fall into the same web that entangled you in the past. A misunderstanding may still be smoldering within you but change has taken place at a very deep level and you get past it all.


The weekend gets a flying start when on Saturday the hint of a new relationship is in the air. It could be someone from the past, or you get the feeling that a past experience is about to be replayed wearing a new face. This new person adds another dimension of worldliness to your life without you leaving home.

The Chariot is a symbol of transportation. It could take you from a place of discord to a place of safety. Hymns are sung that remind us of the chariot that takes you home. The question might be "where is home?" When this card is drawn you are longing for a place of harmony and happiness.








My love tarot reading:
Some people eye everything greedily. They never have enough. The Temperance card tells you to pause and enjoy simple pleasures as the potential to enjoy a pleasant relationship exists now. It is rare to find a union that is so easy that there aren't any dark and dreary sets of histories and no problems in the present. You get closer than you have ever been. In this light, why complicate it?





My fortune cookie of the day

Look in the mirror without admiring your reflection.

darn right... hmmpp!!!!

and another one...hhmmm
Be at peace with yourself.

The third fortune cookie

Take care of yourself first. Then help others.

I can´t get over this why is this true why? Why? Why?

And i´ll get me another one and it says:

It may be difficult, but it will be worth it in the end.


omg...god has his ways of communicating with me it might be through horoscope.com but darn im in teary eye now.

Don't wait for success to come - go find it!

Work with your destiny. Stop trying to outrun it.

Someone thinks the world of you.

Seek out a new environment if you're stuck in a rut.

Face the truth with dignity.

Stop letting other people stand in your way.

You will do well to advance your career.

Happiness may be right under your nose.


Okey 12 fortune cookies, i'm glad it's online or else I will be full right now hehehe...well this is God talking to me through fortune cookies. I prayed today befoe leaving my boarding house that God will give me a sign. After yesterday of wmotional struggling of what I want in my life and where I should go and asking him to guide me to where I belong. This is what I get. I was late for work, but on my way here I had a nice trip on the bus. And as soon as I sat by my desk opened my pc, I had typed horoscope.com where did that come from? I really don't know. It just came into my mind. So here I am tsking note of everything.....

Asking myself am I being too stupid right now? Hoping for something that I am not certain of? Hoping that this thing I have inside my heart for that person is what they call LOVE, am I wasting my time waiting for it to happen or am I just not ready to let it go? And if that is the fact then when will I be? Should I leave it all to time? Or do I really believe time heals everything? Is this the thrill of it all the reason we get up in the morning? Because we still have things left undone, unsaid and unfinished? Well I have the urge to run away right now which I am fighting so hard. I always do this run away and just leave it all to fate. Hoping it will solved itself. Some say this is the wrong way to deal with it all. But this is who I am I turn away and hoping that all the things that have caused pain and uncertainty for me will go away on its on. Sometimes it helps sometimes past has a way of snicking in the back and bite me in the ass. But these are the things that comes along for making decisions there are always circumstances in every decision we make and I have lived 24 years in this material world of ours to know better. After all the things I've gone through I should be better in making decisions but I'm not sometimes I am. I am independent and I am responsible. I don't blame anyone for my mistakes these are the characters that I am personally proud of. And I am blessed I believe that with all my heart that in my life the biggest guidance I have received is from above. So here I am again asking for it. Where do I go? Where does this lead me? What choices do I have left? How can I be a better person, a better mom a better daughter? How can I improve my life? Where do I find real happiness and joy? Life has so much to offer, how can I grab the right opportunities that will suite me and my kids?


MOYA

THE QUOTES

I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours.

- From The Notebook

"I'm scared of everything. I'm scared of what I saw. I'm scared of what I did, of who I am. And most of all... I'm scared of walking out of this room and never feeling the rest of my whole life, the way I feel when I'm with you."

- "Baby" Dirty Dancing

The best love is the kind that weakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I hope to give to you forever.

- The Notebook (best movie EVER)I'm dishonest, and a dishonest man you can always trust to be dishonest... Honestly. It's the honest ones you want to watch out for, because you can never predict when they're going to do something incredibly... stupid.

- Captain Jack Sparrow (Pirates of the Caribbean)

Sometimes i wish that i had never met you, so i could go to sleep at night not knowing there was someone like you out there.

- Good Will Hunting

Poets often describe love as an emotion that we can't control, one that overwhelms logic and common sense. Thats what it's like for me. I didn't plan on falling in love with you, and I doubt that you planned on falling in love with me. But once we met, it was clear that neither of us could control what was happening to us. We fell in love, despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me love like that has happened only once, and thats why every minute we spent together has been seared in my memory. I'll never forget a single moment of it.

- The Notebook, Nicholas Sparks

I guarantee that we'll have tough times. I guarantee that sooner or later one, or both of us will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I dont ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life.. because I know in my heart you're the only one for me.

- Runaway Bride

I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts and I’ve led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I’ve loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough.

- Noah in The Notebook

that thing, that moment, when everything around you becomes hazy.. and the only thing in focus is you and this person..and you realise that that person is the only person you should be kissing for the rest of your life.. and for one moment you get this amazing gift.. and you wanna laugh and you wanna cry cuz you feel so lucky that you found it and so so scared that its all gonna go away all at the same time.

- Drew barrymore in never been kissed

So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day.

- The Notebook

They didn't agree on much
In fact, they rarely agreed on everything
They fought all the time
And they challenged each other everyday
But despite their differences,
They had one important thing in common
They were crazy about each other

- The Notebook


Love cannot be found where it doesn't exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does.

- David Schwimmer, in the movie "kissing a fool"

Summer romances begin for all kinds of reasons, but when all is said and done, they have one thing in common. They are shooting stars, spectacular moments of light from heavens, a fleeting glimpse of eternity and in a flash there gone

- "Noah" The Noteboook

i didnt come back to tell you that i cant live without you.
i can live without you.
i just dont want to.

- jennifer aniston - rumour has it

" You are the answer to every prayer I've offered. You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don't know how I could live without you for as long as I have. I love you, more than you can ever imagine. I always have, and i always will."

- the notebook

I couldn't sleep last night because I know that it's over between us. I'm not bitter any more, because I know that what we had was real. And if in some distant place in the future we see each other in our new lives, I'll smile at you with joy and remember how we spent the summer beneath the trees, learning from each other and growing in love. The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me

- Noah "The Notebook"

There is a place
You can touch a woman
That will drive her crazy.

Her heart.

- From "Milk Money", starring Melanie Griffith

Every story has an end, but in life every ending is just a new begining.

- Uptown Girls

Love is passion. Obsession. Someone you can't live without. Someone you fall head over heels for. Find someone you can love like crazy, and will love you the same way back. Listen to your heart. No sense in life without this. To make the journey without falling deeply in love, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try, because if you haven't tried, then you haven't lived

- Meet Joe Black


"Lots of girls show their beauty because they want the world to see it --
but others try to hide it so he will look for something more..."

- -The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants

That's the thing, she's my other half. She's everything that I'm not. Without her, I'm not whole. Before I met her I'd be walking through life thinking I was happy, that I was complete---but now I can't back to just being me because now I know what it's like to be whole.

- Ashton Kutcher - Guess Who 2005

"You know what's wrong with you, Miss Whoever-you-are? You're chicken, you've got no guts. You're afraid to stick out your chin and say, "Okay, life's a fact, people do fall in love, people do belong to eachother, because that's the only chance anybody's got for real happiness." You call yourself a free spirit, a "wild thing," and you're terrified somebody's gonna stick you in a cage. Well baby, you're already in that cage. You built it yourself. And it's not bounded in the west by Tulip, Texas, or in the east by Somali-land. It's wherever you go. Because no matter where you run, you just end up running into yourself."

- Breakfast at tiffany's

Heres to lying, stealing, cheating, and drinking.
If you must lie, lie with the one you love.
If you must steal, steal away from bad company.
If you must cheat, cheat death.
And if you drink, drink to the moments that take your breath away.

- Hitch(Jaime)


Love is an accident waiting to happen, Desire is a stranger you think you know, Intimacy is a lie we tell ourselves, Truth is a game we play to win, Those who believe in love at first sight never stop looking.

- From 'Closer' '*Chelsie*

"They say, when you meet the love of your life, time stops, and that's true. What they don't tell you is that when it starts again, it moves extra fast to catch up."

- Big Fish

How do you pick up the threads of an old life? How do you go on? When in your heart, you begin to understand, there is no going back. There are some things that time cannot mend, some hurts that go too deep... that have taken hold...

- Frodo Baggins, The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King

"When a woman who has much to say says nothing, her silence can be deafening."

- - King Mongkut from `Anna and the King'

"I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it"

- nicholas cage - city of angels

"You are the answer to every prayer I've offered. You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don't know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have. I love you, more than you can ever imagine. I always have, and I always will."

- Noah, in "The Notebook"

Some birds aren't meant to be caged. Their feathers are just too bright. And when they fly away, the part of you that knows it was a sin to lock them up does rejoice. But still, the place you live in is that much more drab and empty that they're gone. I guess I just miss my friend.

- Morgan Freeman (The Shawshank Redemption)

do you ever wish that sometimes you could freezeframe a moment in your day look at it and say 'this is not my life.'?

- Daniel Hillard (Robin Williams in Mrs. Doubtfire)

You want a man who will lead you down the beach with his hand over your eyes just so you can discover the feel of sand under your feet. You want a guy that will wake you up ay dawn just bursting to talk to you. Can't wait another minute to just to find out what you'll say. Am I right?

- Ike- Runaway Bride

When life makes you have to put up with mean and hateful people, think of them as sandpaper. They may scratch you, rub you the wrong way, but eventually you end up smooth and polished...and the sandpaper...its just gonna be worn out and ugly

- The Fighting Temptations Movie

"Miracles,no matter how inexplicable or unbelieveable, are real and can occur without regard to the natural order of things"

- The Notebook

Find someone who you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. You have to try, because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived."

- meet joe black


"Because you're hoping you're wrong. And every time he does something that tells you he's no good, you ignore it. And every time he comes through and suprises you, he wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that he's not for you."

- the holiday

We fell in love... despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me... love like t h a t has happened only once, annd thats why every
minute we spent 2gethr has been seared in my memory ill never forget a single moment

- the notebook

Oh give me a man who is man enough to give himself just to the woman who is worth him. If that woman were me I would love him alone and forever.

- Francesca Bruni from the movie Casanova


So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.

- Noah, The Notebook

To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down

- Love and Death

Girls flirt with the dangerous guy, they don't bring him home. They marry the good guy, the one that sticks around.

- Dr. Jean Gray in X2

Some wounds are too deep or close to the bone, no matter how hard u work at it....u just cant stop the bleeding.

- Million Dollar Baby

Everyone aks why I started at the end and worked back to the beginning. The reason is simple. I couldn't understand the beginning 'till I reached the end.

- White Oleander



We fell in love... despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me... love like t h a t has happened only once, annd thats why every
minute we spent 2gethr has been seared in my memory ill never forget a single moment

- the notebook

Why are you being so hypocritical? You're the one who walks around saying screw the world because its easier that having to feel anything!

- Sisterhood Of The Travelling Pants


The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.


"When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us."

"You can close your eyes to things you don't
want to see, but you can't close your heart to
the things you don't want to feel."


You've got to take the good with the bad, smile with the sad, love what you've got, and remember what you had. Always forgive, but never forget. Learn from mistakes, but never regret.

- Unknown

"Beginnings are usually scary and endings are usually sad, but it's everything in between that makes it all worth living."

- Sandra Bullock in "Hope Floats"


I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours.

- From The Notebook

I guarantee there will be tough times. I guarantee at some point in time either one or both of us will want out of this. But I also guarantee, that if I don't ask you to be mine, I will regret it for the rest of my life. Because in my heart I know you're the only one for me...

- Ike and Maggie, Runaway Bride

"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that's what you've given me. That's what I'd hoped to give you forever."

- The Notebook

So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.

- Noah, The Notebook

So it's not gonna be easy. It's gonna be really hard. We're gonna have to work at this every day, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, for ever, you and me, every day. Will you do something for me, please? Just picture your life for me? 30 years from now, 40 years from now? What's it look like? If it's with him, go. Go! I lost you once, I think I can do it again. If I thought that's what you really wanted. But don't you take the easy way out.

- Noah, The Notebook

To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down

- Love and Death

When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away. Doesn't sound very exciting, does it? But it is!

- Iannis - Captain Corelli's Mandolin

Take love, multiply it by infinity and takes it to the depths of forever...and you still have only a glimpse of how I feel for you

- Meet Joe Black

"Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space. The best you can do is know yourself... know what you want."

Everyone aks why I started at the end and worked back to the beginning. The reason is simple. I couldn't understand the beginning 'till I reached the end.


We fell in love... despite our differences, and once we did, something rare and beautiful was created. For me... love like t h a t has happened only once, annd thats why every
minute we spent 2gethr has been seared in my memory ill never forget a single moment

- the notebook

"Because you're hoping you're wrong. And every time he does something that tells you he's no good, you ignore it. And every time he comes through and suprises you, he wins you over, and you lose that argument with yourself, that he's not for you."

You know when I said I knew little about love? That wasn't true. I know a lot about love. I've seen it, centuries and centuries of it, and it was the only thing that made watching your world bearable. All those wars. Pain, lies, hate... It made me want to turn away and never look down again. But when I see the way that mankind loves... You could search to the furthest reaches of the universe and never find anything more beautiful. So yes, I know that love is unconditional. But I also know that it can be unpredictable, unexpected, uncontrollable, unbearable and strangely easy to mistake for loathing, and... What I'm trying to say, Tristan is... I think I love you. Is this love, Tristan? I never imagined I'd know it for myself. My heart... It feels like my chest can barely contain it. Like it's trying to escape because it doesn't belong to me anymore. It belongs to you. And if you wanted it, I'd wish for nothing in exchange - no gifts. No goods. No demonstrations of devotion. Nothing but knowing you loved me too. Just your heart, in exchange for mine.

- Yvaine (Claire Danes) in Stardust

We're all looking for reasons and people to blame for our unhappiness, reasons why we don't deserve to be loved.

- from the movie: You Are The One

There are some things that are nothing more than what they are,they're not meant to last.they just take their place in your heart and make you a little smarter the next time.

It is strange to think, I haven't seen you since a month. I have seen the new moon, but not you. I have seen sunsets and sunrises, but nothing of your beautiful face. The pieces of my broken heart are so small that they could be passed through the eye of a needle. I miss you like the sun misses the flower; like the sun misses the flower in the depths of winter. Instead of beauty to direct its light to, the heart hardens like the frozen world your absence has banished me to. I next compete in the city of Paris, I will find it empty and in the winter if you are not there. Hope guides me, that is what gets me through the day and the night. The hope that after you're gone from my sight, it will not be the last time that I look upon you.

- A Knight's Tale

We all grow up someday, we might as well know what we want.

You cannot leave everything to Fate. She's got a lot to do. Sometimes you must give her a hand.

- Ever After

you can't lose something you never had.

- how to lose a guy in ten days

When you're a teenager you think you can do anything, and you do. Your twenties are a blur. Your thirties, you raise your family, you make a little money and you think to yourself, "What happened to my twenties?" Your forties, you grow a little pot belly you grow another chin. The music starts to get too loud and one of your old girlfriends from high school becomes a grandmother. Your fifties you have a minor surgery. You'll call it a procedure, but it's a surgery. Your sixties you have a major surgery, the music is still loud but it doesn't matter because you can't hear it anyway. Seventies, you and the wife retire to Fort Lauderdale, you start eating dinner at two, lunch around ten, breakfast the night before. And you spend most of your time wandering around malls looking for the ultimate in soft yogurt and muttering "how come the kids don't call?" By your eighties, you've had a major stroke, and you end up babbling to some Jamaican nurse who your wife can't stand but who you call mama. Any questions?

- Mitch Robbins (City Slickers)

Some Fairy tales are real, but most are just stories we make up to deal with our pathetic lives.

- ''dakota fanning'' (uptown girls)

life moves pretty fast. if you don't stop and look around every once in a while, you could miss it.

- ferris bueller's day off