BEING A SINGLE MOM?

Lots of friends ask me how things work out for me being a single mom. Well for a starter. I have never imagined being a single mom, so this came as a surprise for me. I have always wanted a big happy family, good old fashioned, where i get to be a housewife raising 5 kids and taking care of housechores. well anyways. So I made it to the point where I have proven that life really is unpredictable, and so I learned.
Well being a mom in general changes a girls life. I got kids at early age, so the change for me that time was huge pretty huge.I use to be a party girl on weekends. I've always been a hard worker though, weekends were spend with girl friends on cafes and bars chatting about non sense topics all day long. But as soon as I gave birth to my first child magically I turned into right the opposite of what I have been. I didn't regret anything regarding my kids, I accepted the blessing fully and completely. And I was glad actually that my life changed, It was a time in my life where I did need a change. This child to make me feel complete and I was absolutely. Everything suddenly mattered to me. I learned to appreciate event he smallest thing in life. I ended as a single mom. I thought it would be hard but actually it is much easier now for me and my kids. I could fully focus on my kids needs and at the same time chase after my dreams. I never took the negative side of bieng a single mom. I was hard for a moment, from that point I knew I had to swallow my pride and seek help from my family and closes friends. They have overwhelmingly supportive about my situation. That is the one thing that made life as a single easier, a lot easier. I could get a job that starts at anytime coz I had no problem having my kids babysit by my grandma. of course I got my self a nanny for my youngest daughter.

I have truly been blessed. I have had the best vacation ever before really going at it. I now work at a danish company, a team leader for a call center that pays the same as working in Denmark.So I can start saving up for me and my kids future plans. Mu eldest girl is going to school this coming opening and I'm excited. I by the way live far from my kids at the moment. I travel back and forth from Manila to Davao. But at least it's not as far as Denmark I can always see them whenever there are promos on flight fares. hehehe. thanks to Ating for the updates on that by the way.







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